Grief is the transition no one prepares for. It shows up at 2 a.m. It ambushes you in the grocery store. It sits beside you at family dinners where someone is missing. And everyone keeps asking if you're "doing okay" when you can barely remember to eat. "There is no one way to grieve," says LeRoux. "Your grief will not look like mine. It won't look like your neighbor's or your sister's or the person sitting next to you in the support group. And that's okay. That's not failure